Therapy for Therapists

ONLINE THERAPY FOR THERAPISTS AND HELPING PROFESSIONALS ACROSS IOWA

You’re the one others turn to for help. You hold space for your clients, colleagues, and maybe even family and friends. But when it comes to your struggles, opening up feels different. Vulnerability doesn’t come easily. You don’t want to burden others or bring down the mood, so you keep it inside. Even when the weight of sadness, stress, or exhaustion builds, everything looks fine on the surface.

How often have you scrolled through Psychology Today, looking for someone who truly understands what it’s like to carry this load? You tell yourself you’ll reach out “when things slow down,” but the demands never seem to stop.

You don’t have to hold it all alone. Therapy is where you can remove the mask, step out of the helper role, and be human. Here, your feelings are welcome, and your struggles are understood. It’s okay that you don’t have it all figured out.

I specialize in supporting mental health professionals, therapists, counselors, social workers, and others who spend their days caring for others. You deserve the same care, support, and compassion you so freely give.

Why Therapy for Therapists?

  • Burnout doesn’t happen overnight. It builds slowly—too many clients, too much paperwork, too little time to recharge. You tell yourself that you need to push through, but the truth is, burnout isn’t something you can outwork. It’s a sign of trouble, not a failure.

    You don’t have to carry this alone. Therapy can help you step out of survival mode, set boundaries that actually work, and reconnect with the passion that brought you into this field in the first place.

  • This type of fatigue isn’t just feeling tired; it’s the slow erosion of the empathy and connection that once fueled your work. You might notice:

    • Increased irritability or numbness toward clients’ struggles

    • Difficulty feeling present or engaged in sessions

    • Emotional exhaustion that lingers even after time off

    • A sense of guilt for not “caring enough”

    This isn’t a sign that you’re failing. It’s a sign that your nervous system is overwhelmed.

    Therapy can help you process the emotional load, rebuild resilience, and create space for yourself without guilt.

  • You hold space for others, empathize deeply, and manage emotional demands. The very nature of the work makes it challenging to set limits without feeling guilty or self-doubt.

    We’ll examine your relationship with boundaries. I’ll guide you in setting healthy boundaries that protect your emotional space while enabling you to be fully present for your clients.

  • Imposter syndrome is incredibly common among therapists, even the most experienced ones. Despite years of training and a commitment to helping others, many therapists struggle with self-doubt, wondering:

    • "Am I really helping my clients?"

    • "What if I don’t know enough?"

    • "Who am I to support others when I don’t have it all figured out myself?"

    Therapists are uniquely positioned to see behind the scenes of healing, which means they also witness setbacks, and uncertainty. Unlike other professions where success is easily measured, therapy often involves guiding clients through ambiguity, making it harder to feel a sense of mastery.

    As a therapist, you are trained to reflect, question, and remain open to growth. This can make you prone to second-guessing yourself.

    The very skills that make a great therapist- curiosity, humility, and self-awareness can also fuel imposter feelings.

  • Helping others navigate life’s challenges doesn’t mean you’re exempt from them. You’ve studied the theories, mastered the interventions, and built a career around supporting others. But, you can feel isolated when it comes to your struggles.

    Maybe you tell yourself you should be able to handle it on your own. Or maybe you worry that seeking support means you’re not as competent as you want to be. The truth is, no amount of training makes you immune to stress, grief, burnout, or self-doubt. Therapists are human first.

  • You got into this work to help people, not to drown in paperwork, documentation, and an ever-growing caseload. Between back-to-back sessions, treatment plans, and progress notes, it feels like there’s never enough time to breathe, let alone take care of yourself.

    You tell yourself, Just one more client, Just a few more notes before bed, I’ll rest when things slow down—but they never really do. The emotional weight of your work is real, and so is the exhaustion that comes with it.

    Therapists aren’t meant to run on empty. If you’re feeling stretched too thin, it’s not a sign of weakness. It’s a sign that something needs to shift. Therapy can be a space to process the overwhelm, set boundaries that actually stick, and reconnect with the parts of yourself that exist outside of work.

taking time for you

One of the most rewarding aspects of my work is supporting fellow helpers. I know firsthand how challenging it can be to balance work and family while neglecting your own well-being. For a long time, I put my physical and mental health on the back burner until burnout hit, and I was ready to walk away.

Finding a therapist was a turning point. It helped me reshape my relationship with myself and reclaim a sense of balance. My story isn’t unique, but I hope it reminds you that you’re not alone. It would be an honor to walk alongside you as you prioritize your well-being and navigate the path ahead.

Caring for Caregivers

You’re worth the investment.

Signs and Symptoms to watch for:

  • Emotional Exhaustion: Feeling drained, overwhelmed, or tired, resulting in a lack of energy for work and personal life.

  • Reduced Empathy: A noticeable decrease in empathy or compassion toward clients makes connecting or engaging in the therapeutic process difficult.

  • Increased Irritability: Feeling irritable or easily frustrated in and out of therapy can affect professional and personal relationships.

  • Cynicism or Detachment: Developing a pessimistic or cynical outlook toward clients or the profession can lead to feelings of detachment or disengagement.

  • Physical Symptoms: Experiencing headaches, gastrointestinal issues, fatigue, or other physical symptoms without a clear medical cause.

  • Decline in Work Performance: A decrease in the quality of work, such as missed sessions, lack of focus during therapy, or difficulty retaining information.

  • Loss of Motivation: A decrease in work enthusiasm leads to feelings of apathy toward clients and the therapeutic process.

  • Isolation: Withdrawing from colleagues, friends, or family, leading to feelings of loneliness or isolation.

  • Neglecting Self-Care: Putting self-care on the back burner and failing to engage in activities that promote personal well-being.

  • Overidentifying with Clients: Blurry or inconsistent boundaries resulting in being overly involved in clients' problems.

  • Increased Use of Unhealthy Coping Mechanisms: Relying more on unhealthy coping mechanisms, such as substance use, overeating, or excessive screen time, to manage stress.

Can you relate?

I’m here to helP.

You’ve found someone who will meet you where you are, support you, and help you unburden from whatever keeps you stuck.

Click the Schedule a Consultation button to fill out a brief contact form. I look forward to connecting with you!

Go from this

  • No energy for your work and personal life.

  • Imposter syndrome and self-doubts.

  • Feeling burned out and stuck.

  • Always put others first and have zero time for yourself.

  • Work is constantly on your mind.

  • Secretly hoping your clients no-show.

To this…

  • Feeling present and fulfilled.

  • Believing you do purposeful and meaningful work.

  • Feel connected, confident, and happy.

  • Prioritizing yourself without guilt.

  • Truly finding balance.

  • Enjoying your work again.

My core values

Awareness

honesty

Safety

Compassion

authenticity

Care

Let’s get started.

Because change is possible.

Let’s get started.